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Dating Scene Tips

Singles Dating Scene Tips

Here are some tips for those guys that are having trouble in the dating scene.  Landing a date with a girl isn’t just for the super handsome and rich, it’s for everyone, but if you aren’t having luck then you might need to change up the game plan a little.  If you are coming off as needy or desperate, then this is the first thing that you need to change right away.

Women sense neediness.  It’s not a good sense, it’s like spidey sense and it’s there to warn her that this dude has some issues.  It’s ok, with a few adjustments to your confidence, you won’t be wearing desperation like a cologne. 

  1. Don’t hang on her every word or follow her around like a puppy.
  2. Don’t over compliment – be nice, say one nice thing, but that’s it.
  3. Don’t bombard – that means, don’t overwhelm her with attention, gifts, compliments any of those things.  Bombarding her is a sure sense that you are in desperation mode.
  4. Boost your own self-confidence.

Number four is the most important because it is the one that counts the most.  You know that voice that tells you that you aren’t good enough for her or that you don’t have a chance?  Well, that little voice can be heard by all women in a 3 billion mile radius. 

Fix the voice in your head, he should be on your side.  He needs to tell you how freakin cool you are, how awesome your conversation skills are, how cool your walk is, how tough you look.  Figure out what your best qualities are, everyone has at least one, and then have your voice tell you over and over how great that quality is.

If you train that voice then you will start to walk and talk with confidence.  You can do it.

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